I was in shock and distraught and whisked into the hospital the evening I found out so that I could have my D&amp;C the next morning.  I didn't even have time to think about things like this until later.  I didn't get a chance to talk to anyone who'd been through it before.  I didn't realize that after the D&amp;C I would wonder if the doctor was right - what if they made a mistake and there was still a heartbeat.  I hadn't been bleeding or anything.